"The world needs to know the gift of gay men"
- Bernie Kettle

You are invited to join in with other gay men for this ONLINE event:

Unwrap The Gift: 

Your Unique Contribution As A Gay Man

for gay men only

Sunday, March 21, 2021 - 90 minutes

At 7:30pm ET / 6:30pm CT / 5:30pm MT / 4:30pm PT

Australia AEDT Monday March 22 at 10:30am

Want to participate but can’t make this date?

Then get on the wait list for the next one:

During this time of uncertainty and change, there is an amazing gift you can give to yourself, your friends and your loved ones.

It's the gift of you! You being gay is a beautiful and unique gift. Who you are, the gifts you have, your presence. 

Being a gay man requires remarkable courage & boldness. First you come out, then you keep coming out.

Yet, there may still be areas in your life where you blend in. Maybe you edit yourself with certain people so that you don't reveal you are gay. Or you don't let some people see your color and brilliance.

When you do so, you literally hide and even withhold the gift you could offer to others – of being shamelessly yourself, of contributing in powerful ways, and shining your beautiful, authentic self, so giving others permission to sparkle brightly as well.

Come explore the gift of who you are, and the unique contribution you can make because you are gay.

Join this invaluable online event to:

  • Uncover where you are still hiding - even as an out gay man
  • Recognize ways you are not sharing the gift that you are
  • Identify what is getting in the way of you showing up as your authentic self 
  • Discover the gift of being a bold gay man
  • Learn how you can live a life of deep fulfillment
  • And much more...


1. This online event is for gay men only.

2. This online event is currently free in service to our community of gay men, though it may not always be. 

3. The number of participants is limited, and this event is expected to fill up. By registering, you are committing to attend and be present for the full 90 minutes.

4. To keep the integrity of the event, please arrive on time. It will be closed to new attendees approx. 5 minutes after we start.

5. Once registration is full, there is a wait list in case spots open up. Those on the wait list will also get first notification of next time this online event will be held after the date is scheduled.

Unwrap The Gift:  

Your Unique Contribution As A Gay Man

only for gay men

Sunday, March 21, 2021 - 90 minutes

At 7:30pm ET / 6:30pm CT / 5:30pm MT / 4:30pm PT

Australia AEDT Monday March 22 at 10:30am

Want to participate but can’t make this date?

Then get on the wait list for the next one:


Hosted By:

Bernie Kettle
The Original BoldAss Gay Man
Mentor to BoldAss Gay Men Everywhere

Hi, my name is Bernie Kettle, and I am the Original BoldAss Gay Man. I have come a long way since I first came out to myself and others, and to begin to accept being gay. But even after that, I struggled with believing that I was not enough, in large part because growing up I had learned - from religion, media, people in my life and society - that being gay was wrong, bad, weak. That I couldn’t be happy or fulfilled or have a family.

So, I blended in, hid parts of myself, and struggled in my romantic relationships. Sure, I was making decent money in IT, but my work was no longer fulfilling and was becoming soul-crushing. I lived in fear of the judgement of others. I played small, but it cost me. After one particularly challenging relationship, I came to recognize that the biggest closet I had to come out of now was being boldly me.

This new coming out process was a transformational journey that brought many opportunities and blessings with it. Don’t get me wrong, I still had challenges, and at times it was painful and difficult, but through it, I stopped hiding and blending in.

Now I boldly embrace that being gay is a GIFT. I live from a deeper inner authenticity and innate boldness, which has led to a whole new level of fulfillment in sharing the gifts that I have - because I am gay.

Today, I am the Mentor to BoldAss Gay Men everywhere, gay men who are ready to bring their gifts more fully into the world, so that they can play their vital role in society. Together we reveal the path to a greater level of fulfillment as you shamelessly shine in your unique contribution to your community and the world.

As greater numbers of gay men live authentically and boldly, my vision is that together we will show the world the beautiful gift that we gay men are to humanity, and my desire and commitment is to bring as many as you along with me as possible. Will you join me?