"It’s time for your authentic boldness to shamelessly shine!"


As a gay man, you have already come out to much, or at least some, of your world. Yet at times you experience that you are not showing up in the world as much as you’d like to. I can totally relate. After coming out to all the important people in my life (which took 12 years! – but that’s a story for another time), I was feeling as though something was missing. Sure, I had lots of gay friends, I traveled for gay events and gay ski weeks, and partied – and had a string of boyfriends. I was making good money doing something I was good at.

But it was no longer fulfilling me. 

Being gay makes You who you are

When one relationship that was challenging ended in a difficult way, I knew it was time to make some changes in my life. In the many years since, I have done much soul searching, learning and growth (which still continues), and through this, I have created a life where I am living much more authentically and boldly, and I am experiencing vastly more fulfillment in so many areas of my life.

I am enGAYed (our term of choice, we are gay men, so we make up our own rules!), and my fiancé is a wonderful, magical man, and I feel blessed to be with him, and in the kind of conscious, authentic relationship that I have wanted for a long looooong time.

I share this so that you know that you too can create a life that is lived with more authenticity, and boldness, and with deeper fulfillment. Like me, you get more in touch with your unique gifts, which I know are very much connected to you being gay.

Now you may be totally or mostly out in your world, and yet you feel you are hiding part of yourself – or blending in – or both. This is not why you are here!! You are here to live at the fullest expression of yourself, and I want you to be seen and CELEBRATED for exactly who you are, and to be free to live your true self in every moment.

This won’t be the easiest of journeys – but let’s face it, anything worth having isn’t easy. But it IS worth it and it is easier that having to deal with the regret of not trying. Coming out for me wasn’t easy, but I’m so glad that I did it. Creating this new life for myself brought many challenges, and I’m a better and more fulfilled man because of it.

If you wish, you could be one of the gay men that I mentor to bring your gifts more fully into the world, so that you can play your vital role in society – as a gay man. It will be challenging, transforming, even frustrating at times, yet so worth it.


If any of this has spoken to you, and you want to know more, I invite you to attend the next event I am hosting.

If you can’t make the next scheduled date, you can put yourself on the waitlist and you’ll receive first notification of the next date. Click here to register or put yourself on the waitlist.

I look forward to seeing you there!



     Be bold, be brave enough to be your true self.     

Queen Latifah

     Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.     

W. H. Murray

P.S. If you can’t wait for the next event to find out more, you can contact me directly and we’ll set up a no obligation, no cost session by Zoom or phone to discover what your next step is.